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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 04:49

How does one succeed in life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Making more friends is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Hangs out with loser friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):